
Through
the years, I've become convinced we live in this world as either travelers or
tourists. I'm not at all sure which
is better, but I suspect the tourists are happier and the travelers are more
wise. Tourists come from some
single place where they've sunk deep roots.
And that place, in turn, has determined who they are and how they
interpret what they see. That one
place has shaped their worlds, their thoughts, and their souls.
"Where
are you from" asks the tourist, expecting the answer to define the person.
And the traveler, uncomfortable with the question, may say "at the
moment I live on Kauai". When
the tourist persists to ask "where are you originally from",
the traveler compiles by naming the town of his/her birth.
The
tourist, satisfied with this reply, can not comprehend the insignificance of a
traveler's origin. For travelers,
life did not begin until "home" became a dynamic entity. Only when those hometown bonds were severed did we truly
awaken.
Tourists
dislike the actual act of traveling. Once
they arrive at a destination, they hurry to deposit their hoard of suitcases
and unpack a few familiar objects. Only
then can they relax. But even
that's temporary. Scarcely a week
or two later, they're delighted to be heading back home.
Travelers,
on the other hand, move often and never define themselves by where they're from.
Travelers are most at peace on the road.
It’s not that they enjoy the conditions-the crowding, the confusion,
the fatigue. It's that they hear the siren song of the wanderer, the
promise of a different and better tomorrow.
For
a true traveler, comfort lies with thyself.
The attachment of familiar surroundings, (house, belongings) weakens as
the traveler learns to adapt. The
routine rituals of a 9 to 5 job in the same town, with the same people, in the
same building.....seem as stifling as a jail cell.
Is it not easier to five a life of familiarity?
A life where tomorrow is predictable?
Do repetitive behavior patterns mimic laziness, and in turn, repress
creativity?
Traveling
allows you to experiment with different personality types, if you so choose.
What a better way to break old habits.
Nobody knows your faults in this new place.
Start fresh!
When
you travel, all your possessions fit into the maximum amount you can carry.
Doesn't matter how many material items you may have acquired throughout
life, these items cannot accompany you on your journey.
The more a person travels, the more they are set free from material
possessions. If you can't carry it with you, there is no reason to WANT.
A traveler can admire things for their true beauty without the desire to
OWN.
In
fact, this heightened appreciation is immediately apparent at "tourist
destinations". Whereas a
tourist is concerned with the photograph, the traveler will stop to enjoy the
full experience. A tourist wants to
take home a picture, while a traveler is more apt to savor the moment (for
stronger memory storage). The
traveler savors the experience, not merely the sight.
Travelers
develop into two types-one which seeks increased human contact, and one which
discovers the joys of solitude. The
latter is increasingly rare, and not fully accepted in Western Society.
The majority of travelers seek to learn form the "locals", who
are tourists when they travel. Travelers
oftentimes are excellent listeners, honed by years of persuading strangers to
reveal insights. Each new person
enriches our experience; their customs, tastes, and viewpoints expand our mind. A true traveler does not judge, but seeks to understand.
A seasoned traveler is flexible in both living conditions as well as
his/her set of beliefs.
For
the traveler, motion creates its own meaning.
It gives a sense of purpose, a feeling of working steadily toward some
unknown goal. Airline timetables,
car rental maps, passport stamps, and the steady accumulation of
experiences---these are the stage props of progress.
Traveling
is often meditative by design. How
often I have reviewed my life while staring out an airplane window!
Watching the clouds roll, the ocean waves break, or the sun rise on the
road ahead shifts my focus from the trivial to the profound.
Instead of "what will I watch on TV tonight", I think
"what would I like to experience tomorrow?"
For
me, I have found comfort in myself and self-confidence as I brave the
unfamiliar. Conquering the unknown
is my daily routine. My goal is to
experience all of life, rather then read about it or watch it on a television
screen.
The
traveler has an insatiable desire for the new.
Knowledge lurks just around the corner.
Truth lies in a fishing village a mile up the coast.
Revelation waits in some inaccessible and distant land.
Ultimate bliss can be found at the peak of a far away mountain.
See
enough, do enough, and you will suddenly discover the meaning of your life.
This is the illusion.
And
when you find that hidden meaning, you will stop and settle down.
This is the delusion. Because
deep down, every true traveler wants to wander forever.